Friend or Enemy

People nowadays, are very sensitive towards their surrounding. They could turn their back towards their close ones, or even their family for their so-called " pride and dignity".

How many of us prefer to be-friended our ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend? How many of us prefer to be-friended our enemy? How many of us prefer to be-friended with someone who betrayed us?

These are the most common cases in today's world. Let me start off with the most common scenario....

Ex-Boyfriend VS Ex-Girlfriend

A pair of bird-loving angels have broken up due to some god-knows reasons .....

the guy has an affair with others, the girl has no attention...
the guy has no freedom, the girl has no sweet talks...
the guy has no money, the girl has no clothes...
the guy broke his promise, the girl was abandoned...
the guy lied, the girl flirted...
the guy broke up, the girl pissed out...
the girl broke up, the guy cheer up...

I used to know a couple who used to be very loving, and used to promise each other that they will give whatever it takes just to maintain their relationship. After time passed by, they realised each other are not suitable for each other, so broke up. Guess what? Both do not talk to each other for years, and treat each other as enemy. Why? the guy blamed the girl to be so boring, not wiling to give in, flirts....the girl blamed the guy to be so NO LIFE, no surprises, stingy, nvr dare to disclose their relationship and stuffs...
Yes, girls like their guy to ANNOUNCE their relationship, and if the guy prefer to be low-profiled, girls usually feel uncontented, and there must be something to hide behind all these...

Back to the topic...since both agreed to go different ways, why cant they just be friend back? Forget the past, and go on!!

There was another friend of mine, she was left by his BF after few years of relationship. The guy provided her with cash, pleasures and also loves. But, that lasted for only few years. After living in her wonderland, she then noticed the guy actually kept another GF without her knowledge...Yes, i agree the guy was wrong, and so what? We have our rights to choose whom to be with.. and how we want it to be... The only mistake the guy did was, he did not tell her frankly how he felt...
Of course, we will surely expect them to be the WORST-EVER-ENEMY ever lived on this earth!! It turned out that they are good friend now, and she mixes well with his current GF as well..this is what we call Sporting? Stupid? Open-Minded? Mature? Responsible? i will let you to decide...
there are still a lot of stories behind, but i m not sure of it though...

Enemy VS Enemy

Some people are born with enemies around them.. not excluding myself for sure. Well, in case you do not understand the meaning of Enemy, open up Google, go to some dictionary website, and check it for yourself. We will have the kind of feeling to revenge, having high level of Testosteron of putting the opposite to Hell...

In my humble thoughts, i seriously think that Enemy could be friend anymore, i mean, maybe can be friend, but not close/ good friend after all of those past...right?

However, i would prefer to reduce the number of enemy and increase the number of friends...don't we? What's the point of having enemies while it will only make you suffer? You have to spend time to avoid him, spend time to curse/scold him, spend your energy to reflect towards his provocation?

Can you imagine how nice could it be if, for once, you could think of how good he is, and how nice if he is your friend? Just lay low, and say HI..or maybe How are you? or..Shall we have a drink??(not to fight or smth)...well..just to let those people who hates me...let bygone be bygone, and let's be friend again..alright?

Trushful VS Betrayers

Haha..this is the worst case..i hate this the most...i cant forgive someone who betrayed me...yea...no matter what he do..i wont forgive him...How could you betray your own friend?
Most people find it hard to forgive someone who had turned his back against them. I strongly agree, because sometimes i find it hard either to forgive a friends who have back-stabbed you...
I do not have any comment on this though..but, if it happens to me, i will try my best to let it go..saying is easy, but action takes a lot of courage and determination..i believe i am categorized in the strong and consistent group of people. :)


No matter how much someone who had hurt you, or someone you hurt, just try our best to live our life to the fullest...never let the past drags you, we should maintain our pace, living happily with what we have now.

When we dislike bush, there are NO BUSH GIRLS
WHen we dislike enemies, there are NO ENEMIES WORLD

" I LOVE YOU, MY FRIENDS!!"
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